624. Experience savored from Seeking Pleasure and Sharing Love!!!

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Pleasurable experience is the concept that appear from the mind hence its approach is also mental. Since it dwells on the mental realm there is ego and emotions involved. For a certain pleasure to be experienced it has to start from a thought. The thought urges the mind to get in contact with the objects that are external to our senses to get the experience of pleasure from them. The result is the feel of emotions like satisfaction, excitement, ecstasy and many more that appear while we experience that pleasure. In very simple words pleasure is the end point in desire fulfillment. At this point if one observes there are two things one the person who has experienced pleasure and the object that is conferring pleasure. Right?

In other words there is an enjoyer and an object of enjoyment. The object of enjoyment is important only to the extent that it gives pleasure to the enjoyer. This means that the object of enjoyment is satisfying the enjoyer only if the enjoyer is willing to get the enjoyment. The experience of pleasure depends on the state of mind of the enjoyer, and not in the object of enjoyment. This puts us to the most important conclusion that the object of enjoyment which can give pleasure to a willing mind cannot be giving the same pleasure to a disturbed mind. Hence we can infer that experiencing pleasure is the game of the mind which is limited in time and space. So any object of enjoyment that is extremely pleasurable today may not give the same amount of pleasure tomorrow or on the worst part may cause displeasure the next day. It is very unfortunate that if we yearn for pleasurable experience there is no limit. In pleasure there is yearning, bonding, impatience, and attachment.

Lovable experience blossoms out from the heart. It starts to sprout when all the conditions of mind stops. Its approach is purely spiritual. Since it is not of mental realm it does not dictate through ego or emotions. In Love there are no attachments but it is always misunderstood that love is getting attached to the loving one. If there is attachment there is selfishness, and in selfishness there is possessiveness, in possessiveness there is jealousy, in jealousy there is greed, in greed there is anger.

One experiences love if they are completely identified with the loved one. That is, the two become one. There is no separate lover and the loved one. The object and the subject both become one. Love merges with beauty alone it does not see faults. Love is without motive and it’s unconditional. As love is not from the realm of mind, there is no need of specific object to love, as one can simply become love as it is a state of being. In love there is no limitation for time as we are in a no mind state. Without mind, there are no clauses or a reason to love, love simply happens. There is no need to yearn for the experience of love from the object loved as there is detachment in love. In love there is kindness, compassion, patience, and gentleness.