Communication is very important in this civilised
society. We have to talk and interact with others to express our feeling and also
to know their feelings. One important observation is that the interactions
which we do with many will not be in the same wavelength. The interaction will
be best and fruitful only if the wavelength matches. Also we would want to
interact with some avoid, while we some, a few we love to only listen to and we
have some with whom we end up being upset. There is so many difference in
the way we interact, now why is this difference?
There are different people who will take the word in
a different ways. And at the same time the words can also be presented in the
way it suites the person who we are presenting it. We have a different ways
while talking to a friend and the boss. A friend can take any kind of word but
a boss is very particular about the word flow from you.
There is a story of a young man who completes his
education under an eminent astrologer. The young man starts his journey of
life. He was good at predictions and soon became famous. His fame reached
the King who wished to show him his horoscope.
The young man looked at
the horoscope and told the king, “I have never seen such a horoscope in my
life. You will lose your sons and grandsons. Your enemies will take
away your kingdom. Though you get the kingdom back it will be when you
are old.”
Hearing this, the King was annoyed and ordered the guards
to put the young man into the prison. Meanwhile the Guru of the young man
came to know about the incidence, he came to see the King. Though the King
was reluctant to see another astrologer, his minister convinced him to listen to the astrologer.
Guru saw the horoscope and came to know his shishya
was correct in analysing the horoscope, he said, “Oh! King, I have never
seen such a horoscope all my life. I say you are very fortunate to live longer
than your sons and grandsons. Your enemies take away your kingdom but even
in your ripe age you fight and get it back. You rule your kingdom till your
death.”
The King was very happy to hear the prediction from
the Guru. He was so happy that he wanted to reward the Guru. Guru told him to
release the young man. Once his student was released from the prison,
the Guru took him away and taught him the last lesson:
Priyavakya pradaanena
sarve tushyanti jantavaha
tasmaat tadeva vaktavyam,
vachane kaa daridrataa?
Every individual is happy with pleasant words. Hence use only such
words. Why dearth in words?
What the young man
and his Guru told the King was the same in intent but the content was presented
differently. One version was palatable and the other was not.
Vachane kaa daridrata?
Why dearth in words?
Vachane kaa daridrata?
Why dearth in words?
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