1. Talking: a way to Express

A lot of trouble in the world would disappear if people talk to each other instead of talking "about" each other. Talk is the only way to express our intent and get other persons content. In the process of letting our intent known we use comparison or examples as content, unfortunately the content takes the important place than the intent. If the content is taking seriously the value of the intent is lost. Intelligent person will ...try to concentrate on the intent than on the content. It is important to be the first to talk, in Ramayana Sage Valmiki writes about Sri Rama as "Hitha Bhashi" and "Purva Bhashi" (One who talked in a pleasing manner and one who would start a conversation).