1245. Love is in the Air....!

Love is not a part of speech that indicates a person, place, thing, idea or status. It is full of action, a state of mind and a spontaneous occurrence. Love cannot be conveyed or comprehended it can only be felt. Love is for a reason that is unknown; if the reason is known then Love doesn’t remain the same. Love can never be an equation or equivalence. Love is not “I love you since you Love me”. If this equation can be accepted then there could be multi steps in that equation.

In class X the algebra teacher wrote an equation on the blackboard “A=B, B=C then A=C” and asked the students to explain the equation with a practical example. A smart boy from the last bench stood up and replied, “Sir, its simple. We love you and you love your daughter…..so we love your….!”

“Shut up, I say,” interrupted the teacher.

Love is not something which works like as in barter system. There is this lousy notion that Love is earned by doing what the one whom we love want us to do. Unfortunately many are “in Love” believing this notion and there are a few who are taking advantage of this notion. This kind of conditional Love makes us remain below ordinary. There is way to transcend this and go for what is called Divine Love.   

Divine Love is caring about the happiness of the other without an iota of thought as to what it might fetch us. It is all about giving without expectations. “If I love you would you do this to me” is not Love at all, it is a well-planned strategy. If the person we Love is forcing us to say something or do something which is not in our nature, then it is not Love, it is a game. The one who is putting conditions to Love has more manipulating power than sacrificial attitude; this may cause injury to the relationship. He who values a relationship holding nothing back and will love unconditionally. Such a person experiences joy regardless of whether his Love is requited or unrequited as he knows only to give. 

Love is all about complete acceptance. Rose is accepted as the Emblem of Love. It is because the one who appreciates its beautiful colour and scented fragrance has to agree with the thorns.

Those who celebrate Love on a particular day are caught in the web of this conditioned Love (if I could call it Love at all). There is more of scrutinising whether the other is caring about the gain and comfort rather than bonding the relationship. Pain and discomfort is a part of human growth and it has nothing to do with Love. Love is not about fostering growth and shielding the one we Love from pain and discomfort. Many have confused Love to be providing comforts, satisfying needs and shielding from trails. 

Only a Divine Lover understands that by doing so he is only clipping the wings of his lover causing hindrance to fly free. There has to be concern and a sincere effort to evade pain and provide comfort, but that should never be with the intention of safeguarding Love out of fear.

Divine Love has no fear and is never insecure.

Gift your beloved that Love which is fearless and is secured always......Love is in the air always; never limit it for a single day!!!