Hurdles are inevitable in the track called life. Nothing
is a cakewalk here and to live on we need to learn to handle them whenever they
crop up. Even though we plan our actions in advance and take extra caution to
have a trouble free execution, there is no assurance that everything goes
according in the flowchart. Every conscientious person develops the attitude to
fight the hardship and look for means to overcome them successfully. Today’s
hurdles cannot be jumped over unless yesterday’s obstacles are cleared. Nastiest
situations cannot be turned nice in a jiffy, but they can be tackled in a way
that they turn out to be favourable to us. Courage is the key to tackle such
nasty situations.
Being courageous does not mean to be daring but to
be able to gaining victory over fear. Courage is the by-product of
self-confident. Without self-confidence everything around seems to be gunning for
us. Self-confidence is not having solution to all problems, but it is a trait
to face them. A self-confident person can easily win over the confidence of
others.
Low self-esteem, dearth of trust in self and lack of
self-belief are the symptoms of poor self-confidence. Belief in self is exactly
what is required at any given moment to make fear drift away. Fear that started
in the mind will fade away in reality.
The way we behave at work and interact with our
colleagues has its roots in the self-confidence that we have. The workplace is
not a ruthless arena if we have self-confidence. When we are on guard and have
enough faith we can mould our career well. Positive thinking generates positive
attitude, response and feeling, which in turn design the blue print of success.
On the other hand, negative attitude, full of fear, doubt and worry, reinforce
negative behaviour. Fortunately we can empty our mind of such useless thoughts
and feed them with positive information. We can replace fear with faith, doubt
with determination, worry with wonder and hate with humane.
Hurdles are never a nuisance, if we have the
strength to accept them as challenge for which they are. They are positioned there
to be jumped over. Sometimes the hurdles we face in our daily life might appear
to be intimidating. We may feel as if we are not ready to overcome what lies
before us. But the truth is that we are always ready. Every event in our life
is customized to our utmost needs, regardless of our readiness. Hurdles are
here to mould our personality and make us aware of our potential which lies
beyond our capabilities; we need to put an extra effort when facing hurdles.
In the tug-of-war between Free-Will and Destiny, the
Grace supports the one with the upper hand. Absolute helps those who help
themselves. Don’t worry about hurdles, with determination take a giant leap and
glide over them.
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