Monday, July 18, 2016

853. Parenting............


Years back, poor illiterate parents produced
whom I will refer to as Group 'A'.

These Group 'A' children struggled on their own after primary 6 or Grade 12, to become notable personalities.

Most of them
trekked to school barefooted
went to farms
fetched water and firewood
cared for domesticated animals
did some work including trading after school to survive.
Now Group 'A' ,who have now become parents themselves are producing Group 'B' Children

These group B children are
helped in their homework or home assignments from nursery school through secondary schools to higher institutions.
chauffeur driven to very expensive schools or are sent abroad to study.
they can watch movies from morning till dawn after school.
are always chatting on mobiles.
they are treated like prince and princess.
they don't help in household chores.
food is served on the table for them,
their plates are removed and washed by parents or house maids.
they are provided with expensive clothes, bikes and cars,
not forgetting big pocket money to be wasted at malls!!!.

Group 'A' parents cared for their own parents and children, and maintained a healthy balance in the family.
While Group 'B' children are still struggling to find their feet at age 30+.‼ They find it difficult to do things on their own because they are used to being helped to think and doing things by Group 'A'. So they can't help themselves, their parents or the society.

Now because of all these Group 'B' children
ABANDON THEIR PARENTS IN THEIR BID TO ACQUIRE THE WORLD......... this is the irony......see the result of over is true, if you still do not believe then you are still obsessed by the blind love you have towards your children......

WAKE UP.....Where do you belong???
Reduce the pampering and the unnecessary help you offer your children.
Never let your children emotionally blackmail you.
Let your children grow in wisdom, intelligence and strength???.
Let them face the truth and the realities of life. 
Teach them to grow to become independent adults.

Teach them to
love all,
fear morality,
respect others,
develop confidence in themselves.

Parents, discipline your children to become disciplined adults, useful and not useless...... if you are pampering them you are not loving them you are spoiling them.

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