The bond between husband and wife should be unconditional and unanimous. Even a little moment and event in their life should be like a big celebration. Love could be considered moral without marriage, but marriage is immoral with out the expression of love. The love expressed by either of them through their behaviour and activies towards other is more than the mere verbal “I LOVE YOU.” There is no point in uttering this Maha Mantra without a feel and touch in it.
We are people having to live with life inside our homes as well as outside. Hence we are not at peace, little rift may be visible in the bond but the aim should be that either of them should never sleep with disturbed mind. A meaningful talk will solve the problem in a swift.
The relationship should be such that at times there should be no necessity to consult either of them if they are confident with each other. There is no question of either of them thinking that they have been taken for grant, if the understanding is at the pinnacle. Fortunately there is such feel in the new wedded couple, though the reason may be different, but it would be nice if they are always like a newly wedded couple. Understanding each other to the core. This extreme bond has to be with a person whom we cannot live without, not with someone whom we can live with. It is being a right person that becomes important than marring a right person.
There is no question of sacrificing in the life of either of them if they develop a mutual sense of values and common objectives. The chariot of life can be pulled by the relationship with the aid of the spirit of joy not by arrogance of attitude. The bond between them makes them become the sides of the same coin even though they are not looking at each other they are together. It exerts dependence mutually, independence equally, and obligations jointly.
“The relationship between husband and wife has to be like fish and water not like fish and fisherman”
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